So she just called up and screamed at me over "not listening" to her. I don't know if it is possible for anything to be further from the truth. I've had it at this point. She is just a miserable, selfish person. I don't think I want to bust this divorce anymore. All I want is for her to go far away and snarl at somebody else. If it wasn't for the kids, I would just try to arrange it so I never have to see her again. She is just selfish and vicious -- a terrible person.