How do you know when you're being played? How do you work through trust issues? My H is not talking to our friend anymore -now her H is calling him (his best friend since 3rd grade). I just wonder how her H would feel if he knew how much time my H and his W had spent on the phone together discussing us (their spouses)?
I want to believe that he's going to try to work on the marriage. Although he's said he's not 100% in yet. We are getting along better. I'm trying not to analyze everything he says (for example - when I told him about my taking time off for vacation and anyone from our family was welcome to join - he said we'll just have to play it be ear).
I also I'm very confused about him still wanting to have S with me. Even being playful and fun about it earlier this week. My attitude is that I'm just having fun with it myself. But I have to admit it is weird when I step back and think about it.
I'm just experiencing a great deal of anxiety about our counseling session tonight? I need your words of wisdom!
