hey vicky, u and i should hang out when we are feeling lonely, we live so close to eachother!
i never set up our legal separation. i dont want to, although i should, for financial reasons.
regarding the divorce a year from the separation, i know my lawyer told me that u can add into the agreement, that whoever files for the divorce has to pay the health insurance for x amount of years - always assuming i wouldnt want the divorce made that sound nice!
i know what u mean about the therapists. they look for us to have some form of resolution, so it gets frustrating.
i have been seeing the same one off and on for 10 years or so. she is finally losing all patience on my patience for h!
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09