hey vicky, u and i should hang out when we are feeling lonely, we live so close to eachother!

i never set up our legal separation. i dont want to, although i should, for financial reasons.

regarding the divorce a year from the separation, i know my lawyer told me that u can add into the agreement, that whoever files for the divorce has to pay the health insurance for x amount of years - always assuming i wouldnt want the divorce made that sound nice!

i know what u mean about the therapists. they look for us to have some form of resolution, so it gets frustrating.

i have been seeing the same one off and on for 10 years or so. she is finally losing all patience on my patience for h!


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09