Quote: Now you are freer to be yourself you can tell him how you feel without worrying what he might do and that is the basis of good communication. The thing is that detaching isn't a technique to get your H back but how you should be living your life. Your r is better now because you both have the space to be yourselves. You want to keep that going.
This is all so true.
I have so far managed to Validate his MLC stuff, and I must confess, I my self have been a little confused what direction to take, in as jung put it " the afternoon of life".
I think I will print your reply off and keep reading it, I find it all sinks in better then.
