How Do You Forgive?

[eternaloptimist]

You need to expose their affair to her supervisors -- PERIOD. Preferably with a copy to the State licensing review board as well.

This is the first I'm hearing about physical abuse. If that's the case, you need to GET OUT -- NOW. Do you have someone with whom you can stay?

EO, he is still lying to you. A cheater will always lie --ALWAYS -- and you can be assured that he's only telling you things in dribs and drabs, AS HE NEEDS TO (as you confront him with proof). I suspect there's at LEAST half of it you don't know.

I'm sorry. Please protect yourself.

Puppy

There has never been any other physical abuse. Why do you think he's still lying? I don't think there is anything else that could be going on... Help? I'm confused.

He is still angry because he feels like he started the affair and feels guilty.