Sue, I'm so happy that you and your H are "dating" again! I'm not in the "dating" stage with my H, but he has started teasing and being playful more often, which I hope are good signs! But, I do wonder if sometimes I want my H to come home yet. I have grown to like doing what I want, I do miss the friendship we shared. But I think we all have doubts and it seems to be normal. Afterall both us and our S's have changed and we have to get to know each other all over again. Deb