I think for most people, the relationship past was unhappy. I'm sure you've seen or read where someone says, "I don't want the old relationship, I want a new better one."
When my husband and I first started dating, I began to notice new things about him. And I was feeling more confident in myself. It worried me that I wasn't ready for him to come back in. But people on this board told me this was perfectly normal.
And I'm happy to say that now I'm ready for him to live with me again!
