Trying to detach from the madness!

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SO2 - I think it okay to accomodate him occassionally with regards to seeing the baby. I don't think there is anything wrong with taking her by his work to see him...once in a while. The FB thing, like I told you last night, just say "I don't think it's a good idea, right now" and let it go. The wedding, I told you to do what you want. It's appears that you WANT to go. I think that is okay. You just need to stay calm....if he takes off with the baby...go the other way. That way you don't have to hear ANYTHING he says to his family or see him being the "perfect Daddy" in front of his family. Find someone to talk to or something to do and IGNORE IT! You can do this. I see you. I see how strong you are. Don't be drawn into the drama. Another added plus is that he will probably feel like you trust him to be with his daughter without you hover around. This is a good thing. I think it is on the lines of DB'ing. Letting him feel like he isn't being scrutinized by you. Don't hover. It's a win-win situation.