That's what I have been doing the last 4 weeks. Have not brought up any R talk or even asked about her activities - she tells me that information, which srprises me. Only part that has been hard has been acting happy. That has been better the last couple of weeks, but was pretty hard at first - just down, no emotional breakdowns in front of her.
This week, one of my goals has been to be more upbeat and happy no matter how I feel. Been doing pretty good with that while also battling allergies. Also trying to build my self confidence (I will be ok no matter what).
How long did it take your W to bring up the R for the 1st time - 8 weeks? Was she by chance reading any books on moving on after the D like my W is?
