Hi Mdoodles
I understand exactly how you feel. My H is going to a lawyer today. The stupid OW is still calling him. I'm pretty sure they are just friends now, but I'm also pretty sure they are just friends on HER side, he wants more, she doesn't so he takes what he can get.
I want my husband home too. But I'm starting to brace myself for impact and the big D. I know it's coming now. He's had a such a strong happy taste of single hood, he's never coming home to us.
He's supposed to call me today after his meeting. I'll have a better idea then about our demise.