Kevin I think YOU are missing the point.

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It was the best I could hope for at this point.


NO IT'S NOT...The best you can hope for is to get to a point were this doesn't occupy so much of your life.

I glad you're happy but what is going to happen if she refiles tomorrow where are you going to be mentally?

Will it suck when my W files sure but by DBing I KNOW I can live a great life without her, do I want that no but the choice is not mine.

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But in the mean time, it buys me more time to DB.


Kevin I'm really not sure you have started to DBing. You don't have a PMA you GAL a little I guess but your happiness depends on your W and that is NOT going to attract her back and she sees it.

Once again I'm telling you this because I was the same way and I don't want you to have to take as long as I did to get out of it. I really don't think you realize how good your life can be with or without your W.

Last edited by volleydog; 06/04/09 02:44 PM.
Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."