From my uneducated soapbox it seems like your H is doing well in his sobriety and feels like everything should be laid in place already. Like VD said, it takes some time for him to figure out how to handle emotions and conflicts without turning to the bottle.
I am all for talking with his sponsor. It seems like it would be good for you in learning how to deal with your H. Good for your H to learn how to deal with you and for the sponsor to understand the dynamics of your M as well.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
