You can read what you are going through now in DB or DR. You have sort of put your life, emotions and such on hold trying to get your significant other to "see" you, that now that SO is back, all of those feelings of yours come rushing back in. They have been on hold afterall!!
Just don't jump to conclusions. Make it comfortable to talk and I think you will actually be just fine.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory