Thanks for visiting me. I'm stopping by likewise to see how you're doing. I'm pretty pants at offering good tea and sympathy but I'm so sorry you're feeling in pain. I never know the right thing to say in these situations..... I guess the way I think is that all things change- you're having a tough time at the moment but things won't always be like this, they really won't. This is a time to sow. Eventually (I really believe this) there will be a time to reap.