I have told him that (the big convo back the end of April) and hope that overall, my actions are showing it. I cannot change him or his mind. DH will do whatever he is going to do and I can't stop it. I accept that this is his decision and his choice. He needs to own every aspect (i.e. the visitation). I will never accept the OW, though. She also is his choice to live with. She will NEVER be welcomed in my home. I pray for the Holy Spirit to give her the strength of character and personal integrity to extricate herself from a situation she should never have been involved in in the first place. For now, all I can muster for her is pity that she has to destroy the lives of many people to make herself happy.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
