Sorry, you misunderstood me.. I didnt so much as hold another mans hand whilst my bf was gone and like you, I had no intentions of dating.. I only would have if I had been 'struck by lightnening' - meaning, I fell in love at first sight with someone new. Then I would have gone for it, otherwise no, and I DONT suggest you date, or try and make him jealous either in order to win him back.

What I mean is, if you start to acutally let go and accept ow and accept his choices and let him know that in some way, he will feel it and then he will start to panic about what he is losing, IMHO.

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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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