Renee, being stubborn and not giving up is an admirable characterstic, and I know a lot about that, but when you are dealing with other people, YOU CANNOT CHANGE THEM. The harder you push, the faster they run. I know you want to know "why" who doesn't? Unfortunately, you will probably never really know. I personnally think most of them feel the grass is just greener. Does it turn out that way? Well numbers regarding divorce seem to indicate that it doesn't overall. Does it mean he will come running back if it doesn't work out? Probably not. Its been my experience that in order to do that, they would be admiting they did wrong and most people regardless of cause or need aren't willing to do that.