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[pauld2100]

Flight,
I was reading what your H did to you, I wonder if I should do this also. I know she's not contacting me and has really pushed me away but also at one point said I was walking away... of course I wasnet but she was lost and didn't want to remeber that she pushed me out... my things are still in the house and I have to either move or get on with life. She is not pushing me to move out and I have wondered about this for a while.
The last time she called and I came and helped her with her car and she almost started crying! I think I have to lay it down, I can't stay like this and have a friend in another state that is willing to set me up with a place and work and think I will be going... So should I do this not knowing what she up to and a little suprised that she hasent contacted me at all in about 3 weeks... it's been 7 months since we split.. you rember what happened on our last meeting...the only thing i have to go on is I can see her personal little struggle with some feeling for me as much as she hides it..???