I wish I could help, Lonely44, but I have no advice, just empathy. My husband was coming around last week, then we too had a "situation" and now he's being the biggest a** ever. It's so hard to be on this emotional roller coaster. Just keep doing the DB and take good care of yourself!!
Me 39 H 42 M 11, T 12 S 10,6 D 3 EA 2007 separated in same home since 3/10/09