Hi Sandi, I have just read your above response and it really touched me and helped. Made a lot of sense.

My thread is
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1774134#Post1774134

I have read your thoughts over the last few months, I was wondering whether you could offer any advice?

Sorry to come in left of centre to your thread Future; I do hope you find peace and travel along the path that is best for you.We are all trying to do that here in the best way we know how.