You might consider that you don't need to be a doormat to be a welcome mat. I hope you think through things and come back refreshed, no matter what you decide. No one has a right to tell you which way to go, because only you know. Either way, we are here.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.