Why don't you guys all just come with me so I can sit in the middle and at least be surrounded by people I like... LOL Oh, and bring the tequila. I may need a few shots.
TTYL
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Good luck, SO. First of all, I have the limes. Second of all, I agree with Mach. Do not say anything about him. Just state firmly and as succinctly as possible while still getting your point across because he will be hearing lalalala after the fourth sentence.
So, it's time for him to really hear you on this. It is not ok for him to keep making you uncomfortable.
Okay. Back. Yep, he came, he crowded, he touched... normal time at the ballgame. He sat on the bleacher above me, and kind of to the side, so I was hopeful. He just bugged me from above. He crowded me to the point (and called me baby the whole time) that my friend was actually laughing at me when he went to the concession stand. She was like, he just doesn't get what's going on.
Oh, the best part is that at one point he started talking about my shirt, and how it looks really good, and he's never seen it before. I was like, I have had this shirt for two years. He keeps talking about it, and from behind me pulls back the top of it to look inside at the tag??? Or what type of bra I have on??? Or whatever??? So, we had a little serious talk after the game was over and I hope hope hope he heard me. Really hope. But at the same time he was all focused on what am I doing, do I have a boyfriend, lalalalalala. Not sure he heard me. I was firm but polite.
Oh, I did tell him that he definitely does NOT have the right to be looking inside my shirt anymore, because this is my body, and none of it gets used by him anymore... lol I was b*tchy about that part. Of course he may have heard blahblahbalh b/c of course he spouts off with well who is getting to use it? UGGGGGGG!!
I'm hoping some of it will have sunken in by round two tomorrow night.
Yep. T2, that bottle would be empty girl. I wouldn't have even needed a shot glass.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Okay ... so lets get the formalities out of the way....
There are guys that just won't leave women alone. This happens so if he is really bothering you when you don't want him to then you need to give him an incentive to leave you alone. If (as you say ) he doens't respect you getting angry and telling him to back off... you have choices. one - a restraining order.... yes I know that is not an option becsause of the kids and you are a decent person. The second then is to offer an incentive... tell him if he is serious about wanting to work something out or pursue a some option with you then he needs to respect your desire for some distance. Then and only then will you be able to consider what he is talking about....
