You sound much better. Good for you. I agree that you should deal with her in a straightforward no nonsense manner. Hey, you are human and are going to feel emotions. As long as you keep moving forward, and try to fix what's not working, it's all good. Have an awesome night.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
