just so you don't feel like the Lone Ranger.... my wife actually blames me for it. My daughter(she is eight)laid into her one night. My daughter I guess stood up and told her she was a bad mom, she never plays games with her, and dad does this and dad does that.... so my ex wife called me up and started to blame me for turning my daughter against her. You would have to read my posts but one short item was i got into it with wife about taking trips with OM and never taking daughter on trips. she accused me of telling daughter about trips, and this was after she brought a t-shirt back for my daughter from New orleans..... i fought the urge to call her an idiot.
As I have heard somewhere else ... "they know not what they do"
I am trying to take the hi road. My daughter needs a mom and a a dad if she is to avoid this crap in the future. so as much as possible i give her mom a chance to be the role model. I will avoid telling my daughter anyhting negative about her mom even though i think she is dealing with some real issues right now LOL!
And Stuck... you are right... that is crap...crazy crap.. i fought with my wife one night and told her, "look I will not ever share this with daughter, but you have to know that I will not let my daughter grow up thinking relationships are disposable. If she is going to marry then she needs to know that she has to put the work into that marriage to make it work"
it got real quite on the phone after that.
My biggest fear now is that my daughter grows up thinking it is okay to be selfish..
so yeah.. they have an issue... I want this and if anyone disagrees then they are an idiot, because it is all about me"
Only problem is that 400 pound gorillia is chasing you and me and stuck and a whole lot of other people on this site ...argh!!!!
