With my W, when I found out, I promptly kicked her out of the house and told her that she would never see the kids again because I wouldn't want them hanging out with a liar for a mom.
Harsh, but I was pretty pissed at the time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.