2InLimbo- no problem. Glad it helped a bit. It helped me to write these things down so that I'm more conscious of them 24/7. I'm doing pretty darn good as far as yesterday and today, only said one thing to him and it had nothing to do with our rlsp, just voiced concern for him because he was going to sleep so early, which is not the norm for him at all.
Other than that, haven't talked to him at all but he did open the door for me when I came home, which is something he hasn't done in a long time.
Glad to hear your postive news about working your 180....I'd be so happy to have my H back together with me in our bed, the sex would be a big bonus, but I so miss cuddling with him there, so good for you! And wow, he verbalized that he loves you...that's BIG!
I totally understand the female co worker thing because I have had to deal with that as well. While I didn't want to be percieved as an insecure, jealous wife, Ialso didn't want to give him a card blanque to go cheat on me either! It's a hard line to walk, that's for sure. Even though you had this minor setback, the other things are overwhelmingly positive, which is great.
Take care,
Me: 36 H: 34 M: 1 yr T: 2 yrs D: filed by H 5/21/09, served 06/08/09, first court date for "maintenance" as well as a plea to restart Marriage Counseling and attend a Marriage workshop 8/24
