Well I talk to OM wife. She is upset. I'm going to try to help as much as I can in dealing with this I will send her to this site to start. We both want to save our R, but now OM wife and I have to get our spouse to stop the A... and QUICK!!!!
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs