One other thing...IF YOU CAN STRESSING IF YOU CAN...tell him how lround you are of him and you understand how had this is for him but if he relapses to tell you. Relapses are common it could be one sip but he needs to tell you and know that he can tell you. What you do is up to you but it is a good possibility it will happen. I'm not telling you this to frustrate or scare you but to prepare you. It may and I pray won't happen but if it does he needs tone able to tell you. I relapsed once and as scared to tell my W but I did. I know it hurt her but I know I had to tell her. Not to judge my W but you seem much more supportive and if he knows he can tell you that could be huge.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
