Oh, I have to add this before I forget.......never.....NEVER....refer to when the two of you were married or the R or get into a R discussion unless it is months on down the road from now. That would absolutely KILL A FRIENDSHIP IN A SECOND. (Sorry, I didn't mean to shout!) But understand, Kev, that your heart will "want" to discuss some things and to remind her how good the two of you were together, but please don't do it or she will run off. Remember......a wild, scared animal.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
