Listen, it may be that she has danced the line and she really didn't think. She kept is secret so you wouldn't be hurt - but she knew in her heart it was wrong.
The best thing in this situation is to Do Nothing right now. You can not tell her you snooped. You really can't.
The ball is in her court. I don't think any towels should be thrown just yet.
Hugs, honey.
Wifey It has been so long since we posted to each other....I knew you were back after not being on for so long.
Thanks for stopping in and for the hug...needed one..really.
I have not thrown in the towel, and I am trying hard not to judge her for what has happened, but you know how hard that is.
It's fresh..it's raw.
My buddy told me yesterday..."You're not going to die without her, and you're not going to die if you stay with her. Relax and get your thoughts together".
