Sandi's Place

[sandi2]

Hi Kev.....it has been a while since I've checked in with you. I will look up your thread and then talk.

Sandi

[sandi2]

Ahhhh, thanks Pup. Post too long? You trying to tell me somehting.....??? Oh, a hint.....it helps if you don't "double post"

[MrBond]

Hi sandi,

thanks for the responding. Especially when you're sick!

Take care of yourself and take your own advice and get some rest yourself.

{{stuck}}

[sandi2]

Hi Stuck, I appreciate that sweetie.

[antlers]

Hey Sandi.

Been having fun with the kids when they come over, especially now that they are out of school. No contact with her, except regarding the kids...usually texting, and I keep it short and to the point. It feels counterintuitive to have no communication...feels like nothing is happening. But that's where it is right now. It also gives me space to detatch. I hope things are stabilizing. Took the kids to ride horses the other day...lots of fun. We also rode paddleboats at the lake the next day. Been swimming, playing outside a lot, etc.

I hope you're feeling better.

[MrBond]

sandi,

robx had responded to my sitch on my thread and I was interested to see your take on his advice. His is more of the "go out and date to see what she's missing" POV. the link is:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1778474&#Post1778474

thanks! hope you're feeling better.

[sandi2]

Antlets, I am so proud of you! I know you "feel" that no progress has been made but I beg to differ. Look at you!! I mean, man, now you have changed tremendously! It was not easy nor did it happen over night. It has been hard, hasn't it? However, it will be worth it b/c of who and what you have become.

I have been reading some very, very good posts you've sent others and it makes me proud of you when I see that. Keep up the good work b/c you are an asset to the board's community.

Thanks for coming by and please do so often.

Sandi

[sandi2]

sandi,

robx had responded to my sitch on my thread and I was interested to see your take on his advice. His is more of the "go out and date to see what she's missing" POV. the link is:

Okay, be there shortly.

[sandi2]

Well, I responded, Stuck. I did not like what you were told. You will see it on your thread.

Sandi

[MrBond]

Thanks sandi,

I was just interested in your take on all this. Right now my W seems very depressed and takes awhile to warm up and be happy. I think I read somewhere how people in MLC will seem happy again, then suddenly withdraw.

I think that's what I saw in my W when I first asked her out to the movies. She seemed to be coming out a little and stupid me jumped all over it.

Like you said...slow and easy.