Thanks R2C and Burt,

Great advice. Right now it's like I'm the poster child for what not to do when DBing. When he came over later to get some more stuff, I asked him if he still loves me and where does he see us in 6 months. He said he doesn't know.

Here I am, a tall, slender, attractive, smart and educated 40 year old woman. And I'm asking my husband while he's in the midst of moving out such pathetic and needy questions.

I can't believe I am acting this way!!! I need to stop and GAL!!!!!!! I need to at least fake that I'm projecting happiness!!!

I asked him if he was happy, and he said yes. frown

Me 40
H 43
T years
M 9 months
H left on 5/17/09
Stepson 9