There really isn't anything to be stuck on is there? I am just sick of the BS contact over nothing.
See, this is where I get so mad at you. It is nothing to you, to her it is important. She asks over and over about the house because to her it is important.
Now you have the option to tell her that you have until August to get it done and are planning to complete it in August. Then if she asks you can tell her not to ask.
You are looking at all of this from a very skewed perspective, that of a LBS. Which is fine and dandy if you feel like being pissed and frustrated a lot. However, if it is me, I maybe change my perspective and simply roll with things a little more even keel.
No, you don't switch days if you had plans for the 4th. If you didn't have plans, then consider it. Halloween is a lot more fun with little one's. Oh, and I would like to point out that if she had waited until the last week of June to ask you would bitch because she didn't ask earlier.....PERSPECTIVE......
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I have enough to deal with right now. I don't need some selfish jackoff constantly pestering me like some gnat at a picnic that refuses to die.
You allow yourself to feel this way.... your in control.......PERSPECTIVE...........
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I'm not saying a word to her about the house. I have 2 months left plus an extension. I will respond with, No I'm sorry I can't switch and the only arrangements that need to be made are you telling me whether or not you want the kids. It's that simple.
OR....... "Hey, sorry but I already made plans for the kids and do not want to switch days. Thanks for offering. "
It is up to you what image you want to present to her. Do you want to come off as the frustrated dick who is letting her get to him post divorce... then respond the way you wrote here. I kind of prefer to come off more with the attitude that nothing they do bugs you. Stand firm with what you want, but be very blase with your responses.
Sorry man, but I just feel like you are doing a lot of this to yourself my friend. YOU can take control over all of this without being upset, or angry, or frustrated, or annoyed..... It's a light switch that only you can turn.....
