I want to thank everyone for the info they have provided...After praying and reflecting on this I have decided not to say anything about what is going on. I feel that I need to stay positive in this situation and if I make her feel threatened in anyway she will shut down even more and the progress I have made thus far will have been wasted..She is fighting her own demons inside right now and I don't want to add to that...I will keep everyone posted as to what progresses, so please keep me in your prayers as I go on this journey hopefully towards reconciliation with my marriage..
Thank you and God Bless
Jeff M
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process