Try something totally different - clean your house while naked!
...um, you mean that's not normal??
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
I guess it was a sigh of relief for a little while, then boom here she comes again.
Expect that at least till the kids turn 18. And more realistically till death do you part; that's why those words are in your marriage vows; WAs conveniently forget.
Ok, who is cleaning the house naked and in high heels, I am so confused?
I come by here to check on Trapt and you guys are in the gutter again. T2, I know it wasnt you.
Anyway, T, I have to say that I dont agree that you are stuck (sorry Mach). I think that reality is setting in for both of you and it sucks. You are in the anger part of the grieving process, she is in the selfish part of the MLC (I know she has been in this part for a loooooonnnng time).
You feel what you feel. And its ok. Only way to go is through it.
You are ok in my book, T. Go with your gut, stand your ground and hold you head high.
Kerry, I think your right. I'm focused on the whole big mess all at once. Mainly financial. I'm in a mess.
I'm trying my best to move forward and take care of what I can. I feel like I have this gremlin who is oblivious to the fact that she wanted me out of her life and that I am busy cleaning up the mess she helped make.
I'm doing the best I can right now and no matter what she is going to keep doing this. It's just becoming a daily thing again and I thought it would be the opposite once things were final.
My fault on the expectations.
I know how to deal with her, I have been there a million times, she just hit the right button at exactly the right time today.