So, you are examining the sides of you that your W reacts negatively toward, and deciding whether these are unhealthy things that you need to work on versus an authentic part of YOU that you may or may not be able to alter. Yes?
Lucky
Yes,
There are a few sides of me that just plain don't make me happy either. They weren't working for me, and they weren't working for my family, so they've got to go!
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.