You must remember that right before the D was final my W asked for a second chance. She said that the letters were good and that she looked often at the photo collage album I made of us.

Originally Posted By: fb2
In retrospect would you send the same letter again?

Knowing what I know now, I would have plowed onward much quicker with getting the D finalized instead of having an "on hold" period.

As I mentioned on Kalni's thread, women get nothing in a divorce in India - even when their H is the cheater. That probably has a large part to do why the divorce rate is so low, but the lady I know says that has changed a lot recently as India has become more westernized.

My X could write a best selling book in Thailand - "How to Marry an American and Get Rewarded for Cheating".