*groan* sounds like she is regressing, turning into a troublesome teenager, jeez!
Because of the kids you will have to have constant contact, but do try to keep it as short as possible, less fodder for her, though she seems to make a mess out of the simplest things. Like talking to a 5yr old, from now on just confirm with her in a short email of some other "business" trip or something like so comes up.

So sorry you have to deal with such a toxic person, Ncode, patience your way)))


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.