what kind of a man is he? I'll let you answer that...has he been supportive no matter what and been loving and forgiving? has he been keeping your best interests in mind and never suggested or pushed you to do things that made you uncomfortable? Has he graciously walked away or has he been punishing you nonstop? you have the answers.
Or, you could just excuse every his every reaction with "I made him do it" and hold him unaccountable of his own behavior. "I made him do it" is as unexcusable as "he/she made me do it"
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
