Puppy - do you have any good hard-hitting questions concerning adultery you'd like me to include?
Originally Posted By: Kittyfish
With a BPD there is no telling what you might get- it could make the situation worse or it could make it better. Depends on what her rage level is.
Whatever you're doing to her- do not make it about revenge- and enjoying seeing her squirm- do it only for DD's sake.
I'm completely detached emotionally... pretty much I'm trying to follow the "Splitting" recommendations of exposing her private persona in public to prevent her from attempting to control me via the legal arena again.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."