rick now though is not to lose sight of the things that we did do or could have been better at.
I have a couple of friends that their wives called it quits and they have mentioned some of the things the wives said. i humbly agree 100% with the WAW. One friend is controlling, arrogant and pushy. He became aware and was trying to change at first but in month 6 he started dating someone. AND poof... everything was forgoten, he did nothing wrong, wife was pshyco, Sad thing thing though... you can see the new girlfriend responding negativly to his actions...
Yep i don't want to go there either
Absolutely true. I know I had a part in all this. In the early days I was thinking I was this horrible husband and father. I had some good friends who knew us well who said "You told her you loved her 5 times a day. You went home to the kids every night. You didn't do anything for yourself." And it set me right. So I know that I made some mistakes. And I know there are things I can do better. But I also know that the lion's share of the responsibility for this does not fall on me.
