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Let it be duly noted that said poster, T2, did not start trapt's thread spiraling into the gutter this time. The guilty party is Kerry. grin grin grin

There you go.


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Originally Posted By: KerryK
Try something totally different - clean your house while naked!

...um, you mean that's not normal?? confused


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Originally Posted By: Dawn of Hope
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Try something totally different - clean your house while naked!

...um, you mean that's not normal?? confused


Ok, since I didn't start it I am not going to feel guilty for joining in.

So...........

I say clean your house naked but make sure you are wearing your high heels.

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Trap, go ahead and wear the butt floss thong too.

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Wow! I go and do actual work for a couple hours and come back to naked house cleaning. Sounds like something on pay per view.

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Originally Posted By: trapt
I guess it was a sigh of relief for a little while, then boom here she comes again.
Expect that at least till the kids turn 18. And more realistically till death do you part; that's why those words are in your marriage vows; WAs conveniently forget.

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Originally Posted By: KerryK
Trap, go ahead and wear the butt floss thong too.


Oh goodness....this is leading up to the pole. I guess I had better get busy making that leopard patterned loin cloth that was promised to you.

Thanks peeps...I needed the laugh today. smile

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Ok, who is cleaning the house naked and in high heels, I am so confused?

I come by here to check on Trapt and you guys are in the gutter again. T2, I know it wasnt you.

Anyway, T, I have to say that I dont agree that you are stuck (sorry Mach). I think that reality is setting in for both of you and it sucks. You are in the anger part of the grieving process, she is in the selfish part of the MLC (I know she has been in this part for a loooooonnnng time).

You feel what you feel. And its ok. Only way to go is through it.

You are ok in my book, T. Go with your gut, stand your ground and hold you head high.

Now, where is the party and the high heels?

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Hey!! Don't jack my party... bring the high heels and the loin cloth to the patio for the margaritas. LMAO


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I feel a little better now.

Kerry, I think your right. I'm focused on the whole big mess all at once. Mainly financial. I'm in a mess.

I'm trying my best to move forward and take care of what I can. I feel like I have this gremlin who is oblivious to the fact that she wanted me out of her life and that I am busy cleaning up the mess she helped make.

I'm doing the best I can right now and no matter what she is going to keep doing this. It's just becoming a daily thing again and I thought it would be the opposite once things were final.

My fault on the expectations.

I know how to deal with her, I have been there a million times, she just hit the right button at exactly the right time today.


Don't stand still.
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