I have a lot of reasons to believe H will want to stay legally married. I am not sure how long I could live like that or without some closure.
How do you really move on? Or is it just that you do not want to "move on" yet or that you see yourself as able to move on regardless?
I have tremendous respect for you and your choice. I'd like to understand the logistics a little better.
Is he responsible with money? Is he providing for you or do you make your own money? Are there any negative ramifications for you in staying married to him (financial vulnerability, credit etc)...
I know this is fresh for you so if you don't want to answer my probing questions, I understand.
