In all honesty, no visitation agreement would be held in concrete anyway. Heck, a D agreement is only worth the paper it's printed on. It's just a matter of enforcement. How willing do you think your H would be to drag you to court over it? He sounds cowardly when it comes to facing up to the "true desires of his heart". Gee, if he was so set on his course you would think he would have already been pushing all the paperwork himself.
Goes to show you what his priority is.
Mish--
This is pretty much where I believe DH is. He still does not know exactly what he wants, just what the OW is telling him he wants. What he does know is that the woman he sees daily is not the woman he left in September when deployment began.
Yeah, I am in Family Law and Divorce Mediation this term for school and know that any agreement we make has about much weight as the piece of paper we write it on. DH is not willing to drag me into court and honestly for what?? I let him see the kids whenever he wants and do not see the need for an agreement. Any lawyer worth their salt would tell him to count his blessings that his wife is not vengeful!
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Gee, if he was so set on his course you would think he would have already been pushing all the paperwork himself.