WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[aliveandkicking]

Wow. This is so enlightening. Kittyfish, thank you. I am LBS but was close to being WAS...married to a narcissist (IMO).

What would have worked for me was apologizing sincerely for what he had done and ask for my forgiveness. What would have worked is him treating me with kindness other than anger and in my sitch I would have loved to have heard "It doesn't matter what you've done- come home and work on our marriage- I forgive you"

You really think that would have worked? Or more like maybe...

Is there any sign of infidelity? Because in what I've seen before women do not usually move out until they've got someone else lined up???

I have women friends who left without having someone else lined up. Or they kicked H out. I think women get fed up. I'm sure each sitch is different.