Well, after several days of tears, lots of praying, and too much thinking, I have decided that I will NOT draft a visitation agreement. I am at peace with a decision that i never thought I would make in this direction. I do not have a problem with the current arrangement and I do not see a reason to change it. IF DH wants something else, he needs to do it. This way, too, he can never tell the kids that I would not allow him to see them more--he will take full responsibility for his decisions. I will not give him the opportunity to push it off on me.
Pure genius! You are being the kind of friend I am trying to describe on my latest thread. You are firmly across the divide on the shores of love.
Psalm 40 I waited, waited for the LORD; who bent down and heard my cry, Drew me out of the pit of destruction, out of the mud of the swamp, Set my feet upon rock, steadied my steps, And put a new song in my mouth, a hymn to our God. Many shall look on in awe and they shall trust in the LORD.
Love the new song you are singing!!!! Cheers Coach
ps I would high five you right now if I could SMW!
Coach--
Well your post brought on a new round of tears. While I do feel like God led me to this decision, it is good to have friends who approve of it. Thanks for the high five!
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
