WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[AlexEN]

What if the only thing WAS wants from LBS is the one thing that's hardest to give -- the D?

Alex, If you truly believe that is the only thing your wife wants from you then why not give it to her? She doesn't want anything else from you? That sounds kind of absolute to me. If it's true what will you gain from hanging on to someone who truly does not return any goodness to you? You can still love someone without anything in return but to expect something back would be bad for your own self-care.
How would you respond to this question if it was asked to you?

Coach,

I need to think about this more... I accept that she doesn't love me any longer... I guess what I don't accept is that she is her "true self" now and the hurt this D will likely cause 3 precious and innocent children who don't deserve BOTH of us not giving it our all before giving up...

-AlexEN