Thinker, What helped me not grab, fawn or beg for affection and intimacy was to realise it was my want at the time. It was one of my goals for sure but I knew I had to take care of all the steps in between. So I had to be a friend but I was working on having a edge. Make yourself desirable to her. Confident, TCB, great Dad, fun to be around, interested and interesting, mysterious, and loving without pressure and expectations. You are being watched. Cheers Coach
This is what I was doing up till last week when I moved and she was gradually starting to warm up. Does any of this change during separation? How do we keep this from becoming an extended limbo as Thinker mentions below? Currently, I'm thinking I'll let her contact me and make those next moves towards friendship if she's indeed interested. Right move?
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
