"What I wanted to see was a partnership- someone who valued me- respected me- and most importantly someone who wanted to meet my needs. Someone who listened to me and took the time to intimately know me. "
CIPA, If you can get this you will be a happy man. I promise. Not one time does it mention what she will do in return. It's all about her. To a man that sounds kinda of selfish doesn't it? It's actually selfish (fearful) on our part not to treat and cherish our wives this way. Reread what KittyFish wrote. Hang in there brother, you can handle it.
Yeah, it does sound kind of selfish and I was being selfish. According to my H- he was perfectly happy. He felt I was meeting his needs and I didn't need to improve on anything.
After putting everyone else- and I mean everyone else above myself for so long this is what happened.
