Originally Posted By: The Wifey
But then your actions are going to create cognitive dissonance. (Do a google search or use the search function on this site.)

And, you let her know your committment WITHOUT any words. With actions.

Any clearer?


I thought I was getting it but had gotten lost until I googled congitive dissonance. What I couldn't get was how do I let her know my commitment without any words? What are some actions that would do that?

Thanks again for helping a DAM through his own ignorance.


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13